Feeling Hopeless

Letter: "I don't know why I'm writing this - it is so as opposed to me to truly really feel 'hopeless.' I am a single mom raising two teenaged boys. Immediately after my youngest was assaulted on the way to school last year, I quit a decent job in tv to begin my personal advertising and marketing/p.r. organization out of my house. I had two clientele that, at the time, which enabled me to make far more than I had operating for the tv station. And then in March, a single of the customers and I parted techniques. We had really distinct expectations. Ultimately, we each had contrasting views more than what my role would be. That cut my earnings in half.

I have attracted one particular new client - but at a third of what my former client paid. And now, I am in debt (deeply). And now, I am in debt (deeply), my account is overdrawn due to the fact my other substantial client "got behind" and didn't place in my automatic payment into my account till yesterday - and it takes 24-72 hours for it to show up (they had told me it was going to be place in last Thursday)! My ex's kid support is late and I do not even have adequate money to spend for groceries till the income shows up. I'm terrified that checks will bounce and I'll be left with nothing at all.

I cannot sleep. My stomach is in knots. I nearly feel as if my youngsters would be far better off with their dad. He's extremely effectively off and could afford to give them almost everything I can not.

I don't know how to get out of this poverty mentality. I do not know why I have such feelings of lack when it comes to my finances. Tomorrow I have a meeting with a potential client and I cannot even concentrate on placing with each other a presentation for him. It hosted ftp is as if I currently know that he won't want to operate with me, let alone Pay me. I get so up for items, I have such wonderful expectations and then every thing falls flat.

In ALL other locations of my life, I am doing nicely. My children are terrific - good hearts, straight-A students, superb athletes. I don't have weight troubles.

I do not have troubles with my relationships with the opposite sex. It really is just that Income seems to be slipping out of my grasp.

Quite honestly, I do believe that funds buys a fair quantity of happiness. At least for me, being aware of what I've gone through these past years, it would buy some peace of thoughts. And that is what I want. Freedom and peace of mind. To go exactly where I want. To do what I want. To Feel how I want to feel.

Can you assist me get out of this negative spiral?"

A Reader

Rebecca's reply:

"Dear Reader,

Thanks so a lot for writing. And I hope you are feeling greater. YEP. I've been there a couple of occasions. I can remember days when all I could do was walk around the property saying, 'I just want to really feel good' over and over. Eventually, I did start to really feel far better. Now, feeling good is my dominant feeling.

In fact, you are an superb 'attractor'--look at what you are telling your self about funds and then notice how you are attracting a lot more of the very same.

If I had been coaching you, I would ask you to take a piece of paper, and draw a massive letter T on it. Then label the left column I dont want and the right hand column, I do want.

Initial make a list of every little thing you dont want. Just use the letter you sent to me and write down stuff like:

I dont want hosting ftp clients paying me late.

I dont want cheap customers who cant afford to pay what Im worth.

I don't want child support payments to be late.

Get all the negatives OUT of oneself and onto paper.

Then go by means of each item, and ask your self, If I dont want this, what do I want? and write down what you ftp services DO want in the correct hand column.

When youve written a Do Want for each and every item on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the middle so you are searching at the 'Do Want' list. Maintain that list in front of you at all instances. Start to picture what it would feel like obtaining clientele who JOYFULLY pay for your services. How amazing it is when the Kid Support checks arrive a day early! Function at keeping your Focus on what you DO WANT. If you start to consider or speak about some thing on the Dont Want side, just say, Ive dealt with that, AND what I DO want is

The T-tool is the Greatest Law of Attraction Tool for finding clarity! And as soon as you have clarity, what you want IS on its way to you.